Oxygen Masks

I rarely find direct flights when I take a trip, so a round trip often includes four flights. At the start of each flight, the flight attendant explains how to use the oxygen masks. You are reminded to put on your mask before assisting others. I've heard this analogy applied to women's lives, especially mothers, to remind us to not put others first at the detriment of ourselves. If mama's not happy, no one is happy!

My trip to Ohio turned out to be my oxygen mask. For the first time in two years, I was not responsible for my child for days. I slept in and ate out. I watched random TV shows. I just hung out with my family without always having an eye or ear on Alex. I was somehow able to make the best of this trip.

Surprisingly, I was able to do this with little guilt. I returned with a renewed energy for my daily life. I looked forward to dropping Alex off at daycare this morning even if it adds time to my hectic morning routine. I did not mind reworking a student's summer class schedule multiple times. I enjoyed going outside to check on the progress of our garden and then cleaning up after dinner. I hope to make this feeling last. I will need to remember to put on my oxygen mask more often than every two years...

Comfortable

I am in Ohio, but John and Alex are still in Texas. This is the first time that I have left Alex for more than a day. In the past two years, I have never been so far away from him. I miss my boys! John set us up on Skype, so we have been able to video chat twice.

My grandmother (Oma) passed way on Tuesday, so my mom and I made the trip back to Ohio. It is good to be with family and relax in my childhood home (where my brother currently lives). My dad repainted the inside of the house before moving to San Antonio, and it looks great. My room was yellow when I was little, but then I wanted it painted purple. When I was in high school, we painted it white. My mom let two friends help me paint it, which was a messy process. Now, my childhood room is yellow again. I arrived on Thursday evening and announced that I was "going to my room."

Today I went with a friend to Aullwood Audubon Center, which is where John and I got married. I had not been back there since our wedding in 2004. It is good to be in my hometown and very comfortable. We do a lot of running around during our planned visits back, but this trip is more relaxing.

Past, Present & Basketball

This week my past and present intersected. This was surprising considering that I moved "1200 some miles" from where I grew up.

I began working at UTSA in 2004, and the Men's Basketball team made it to the NCAA tournament that year. (I had applied for the job at UTSA at the end of February and cheered for the Roadrunners that March. Shortly after that, I was invited to come to San Antonio for a job interview.) After a few appearances in the tournament, UTSA did not have a win. This year they upset the #1 team in the Southland Conference to win the conference tournament. They were on their way to play in the "First Four" of the NCAA tournament in Dayton, Ohio. The University of Dayton has hosted the 64 vs. 65 game for a while now, but this was the first year for the "First Four," and a chance for the Roadrunners to win their first game in the NCAA Tournament. The University of Dayton and people in the area are great hosts for these early games. My mother-in-law bought tickets to the "First Four" games well before the games were announced.

I attended various UD Men's Basketball games over the years at UD Arena and had two of my graduations there. I graduated from high school at UD Arena. (I had to consult my high school scrapbook to verify the location. I must be getting old! How did I forget that?) Seven years later, I graduated at UD Arena again with my master's degree. On Wednesday, I was happy to watch UTSA win there first even NCAA tournament game in my hometown.

Their prize for winning a game was to go to Cleveland, Ohio to face the number one overall seated team in the tournament, The Ohio State Buckeyes. I was set to attend Ohio State until I visited Case Western Reserve University in Cleveland during April of my senior year. I remember calling my dad from a pay phone to explain that I had changed my mind and wanted to attend Case. I spent the next four years in Cleveland, and saw a couple of concerts (Dave Matthews Band and Bare Naked Ladies) at Gund Arena, now The Q where the next round of tournament games would be held.

A #16 seat has never beat a #1 seat in the tournament (I learn these things from my dad.) The Roadrunners were not able to change that on Friday, but I am still proud of the UTSA Men's Basketball team. For the photo, I just pulled a couple of items from Alex's toys. My parents got him the UTSA Basketball and my brother sent him the Brutus Buckeye.

Garden

A couple of weeks ago, our neighbor borrowed the truck to buy lumber for a raised garden. We decided to try one too, and it is a nice addition to our yard since we are outside regularly with Alex. Last weekend, John and a friend (thank you) built a box for our raised garden, and the experiment began. We do not know much about gardening, and we are finally figuring out the South Texas climate after living here for over six years.

We planted tomatoes, broccoli, lettuce, herbs, carrots, cucumbers and flowers. The plants look good and the some of the seeds are starting to spout now.

Photos taken 3/13/11.

one weekend 2 shots (March 12, 2011)

We discovered Elmo's World videos on the Sesame Street website, and Alex was mesmerized.

Alex loves playing in John's truck!

I've started doing some of my photo editing on Picnik, which is quite fun.

Family Photo

After a little cropping and editing, here is our family picture from 3/6/11:

Alex's Tree

About a year ago our neighbor gave us a small Maple tree to plant in our front yard, and it is "Alex's Tree". Here is Alex and his tree on March 27, 2010:

We plan to take a picture of Alex and his tree each year around his birthday. In just one year, you can see how our son and the grass have really grown. The tree is growing too.

Photos taken 3/6/11.

Catching up

Here is what we've been up to lately:

John gave me flowers for Valentin's Day and they lasted for a couple of weeks. It was nice to have flowers in the house.

I love Alex's "cheese" smile in this photo! (2/19/11)

Uncle Bubba sent Alex a t-shirt that says "Lock Up Your Daughters" for his birthday. He actually wore the t-shirt to daycare. It seems that he does not have any girlfriends in his current room. (3/3/11)

Alex is enjoying the new table that his Grandma and Grandpa gave him for his birthday. It will last him a long time. (3/5/11)

Alex's Grandma sent him a great set of Lincoln Logs. I don't know who has more fun playing with them, John or Alex. (3/10/11)